Stormé DeLarverie

Who was Stormé DeLarverie? Her story is one that is often overlooked or forgotten in mainstream historical narratives. Yet, she was an incredibly influential and inspirational figure in the queer rights movement, especially during the events surrounding the Stonewall Riots on June 28th, 1969. Much of her life remains under-documented or misrepresented, but what we do know reveals a powerful legacy of resistance, identity, and activism. In this piece, we aim to share as much as we can about this remarkable queer icon and her enduring contributions to the LGBTQIA+ movement in the 1960s and beyond.

Stormé DeLarverie was born on December 24th, 1920. She was a mixed-race child raised by an adoptive family during her early years. Her upbringing was marked by a lack of knowledge about her biological parents and by numerous challenges, including experiences of violence, homophobia, and sexual assault. Despite these hardships, Stormé was a figure of resilience. Throughout her life, she continuously reinvented herself. In her earlier years, she was known by various names, including “Stormy Dale.” Eventually, she became known as Stormé DeLarverie—the legendary drag king and activist we remember today.

She shared a long-term romantic relationship with her partner Diana, with whom she was together for 26 years. Diana passed away shortly after the Stonewall Riots, and her death marked a transformative period in Stormé’s life. From that moment on, Stormé fully embraced her identity as a protector, performer, and activist for the queer community.

When it came to gender identity, Stormé DeLarverie was considered non-binary by many, although language around gender was much less developed at the time. When people asked which pronouns she preferred, Stormé often responded by saying they could use whatever pronouns felt most comfortable to them. She rejected the idea of being confined by rigid gender roles or societal expectations, which in itself was a powerful form of defiance.

Before becoming widely known for her role in the Stonewall Riots, Stormé had already made a name for herself as a talented drag performer and singer in the Jewel Box Revue, the first racially integrated drag performance troupe in North America. Her performances often challenged gender norms, especially through her androgynous fashion, where she dressed in masculine attire and inspired countless lesbians in New York to embrace gender-nonconforming styles. She became something of a fashion and cultural icon in queer circles.

Stormé was also deeply committed to protecting vulnerable members of the LGBTQ+ community. After leaving the performance circuit, she worked as a bodyguard, ensuring the safety of queer youth and marginalized individuals—particularly in and around LGBTQ+ bars. Her physical presence and fearlessness earned her a reputation as a watchful protector, someone who created safer spaces wherever she went. She even worked security for wealthy families during the day to support herself financially.

During the Stonewall Riots, Stormé was present at the Stonewall Inn when police began harassing employees and patrons, citing liquor license violations and “cross-dressing” laws. Some accounts claim that Stormé threw the very first punch that ignited the uprising, though this has never been definitively confirmed. What is certain, however, is that she fought back fiercely—physically resisting police violence and, in doing so, galvanizing others to take action. She was beaten by officers during the riot but survived and continued her activism afterward. Whether or not she threw the first punch, Stormé’s presence at Stonewall cemented her role as an enduring symbol in LGBTQIA+ history.

This brief account barely scratches the surface of her incredible life, but in telling it, we hope to honor her memory and shed light on the importance of her legacy. Stormé DeLarverie was not only a drag performer and activist—she was a revolutionary force who helped shape the queer rights movement and inspired generations to come. Her story deserves to be known, shared, and celebrated.